PRAYING FOR FORGIVENESS AND FORGIVING
OTHERS
Matthew 6:12,14,15
Forgiveness,
pardon for sin, is the most essential, the most blessed, and the most difficult
act that God ever did for man. It is the most essential because it keeps us
from eternal suffering in hell and gives us joy in our present life with
fellowship. It is the most blessed because it secures us a place in heaven, to
live forever with God. It is the most difficult because it cost the Son of God
His very life on the Cross to provide. Forgiveness of sin is man’s deepest need
and God’s greatest gift. And the Lord has promised that if the sinner confesses
and forsakes his sins and if by faith in the vicarious death of Christ he
trusts in God for forgiveness, he will be forgiven and will be granted the
privilege of sonship.
It
is important for the sinner to pray: “For Thy name’s sake, O LORD, pardon
mine iniquity; for it is great” (Psalm 25:11). Only those who
come to God knowing their debts are so great that they cannot pay, relying only
on the mercy of God and the merits of Christ will receive forgiveness. With
humility and sorrow of heart for sinning against God, such a sinner turns to
God for mercy and pardon. Gratitude for being forgiven makes him to also
forgive his fellowmen who have sinned against him.
1. PLEA AND PRAYER FOR FORGIVENESS FROM GOD
Matthew
6:12; Psalm 25:11; Luke 18:13,14; Psalm 51:1-13; Isaiah 1:16-18; 2 Chronicles
7:14; Exodus 34:8,9; Daniel 9:4-19.
“And forgive us our debts.”
“And forgive us our sins” (Luke 11:4). Sins are represented by
the term, debts. These debts are sins (Luke 11:4), transgressions (1 John 3:4),
trespasses (Ephesians 2:1). Our sins are moral and spiritual debts to God. Sin
makes men guilty before God. Sin brings men under judgement. But what is sin?
(1) Sin is missing the mark of God’s required standard. (2) Sin is
transgression, stepping across the line – that is, stepping across the line
drawn by God to demarcate what is right from what is wrong. (3) Sin is
lawlessness – the breaking of God’s law. God will judge all lawlessness. (4)
Sin is slipping, sliding or falling – losing control and falling into degrading
lifestyle. (5) Sin is debt and except God graciously writes off the debts of
sin we owe, no man can hope to pay off his debts of sin from birth. This is why
we plead and pray: “Forgive us our debts; forgive us our sins.”
In praying like this, the sinner or the backslider prays for personal forgiveness.
Can
the saint or the believer ever pray, saying, “Forgive us
our sins”? When praying for national forgiveness, Moses,
though he was free from the sin of the nation, prayed, “O
Lord, ... I pray Thee, ... pardon our iniquity and our sin ” (Exodus 34:9).
Daniel identified with his nation and prayed in the same way. Also,
within the family circle, a child may ask the father’s
forgiveness. Examples of believers’ debts for which we ask Him forgiveness in
the New Testament are: Matthew 16:21-23; Mark 10:35-45; Luke 9:49-56; John
13:6-11; Acts 22:17-22. Without committing sins that damn the soul, we can
still pray: “Forgive us our debts.”
2. PROMISE AND PRIVILEGE OF FORGIVENESS FROM
GOD
Matthew 6:12; Isaiah 55:6,7; Proverbs
28:13,14; Acts 5:30,31; 13:38,39; 26:18; Ephesians 1:7; 1 John 1:9; Hebrews
10:16,17.
God’s word is full of His promises of
mercy and forgiveness. Examples of the greatest of sinners receiving
forgiveness (David, Ninevites, Paul, etc) encourage every sinner to come to God
for mercy, grace and forgiveness. The Lord promises pardon on condition of
repentance from all sins. Man’s greatest spiritual need is forgiveness and that
is what God has promised and provided. What God has promised is the
cancellation of the sinner’s debts, the removal of the ultimate penalty of sin
and victory or triumph over the power of all past sins. With the forgiveness
experienced by the believer, he is no longer under condemnation, no longer
under the power of sin, no longer destined to hell. The eternal Judge has
declared him pardoned, justified and righteous. The eternal Judge has become
his heavenly Father and the Spirit of God bears witness with his spirit that he
is a child of God. This experience of forgiveness and the joy of salvation
fills his heart with love and gratitude to God. He is eager to extend the love
and mercy received to all who have any contact with him.
3. POSSIBILITY AND PERIL OF FORFEITING
FORGIVENESS FROM GOD
Matthew 6:12,14,15; 18:21-35; Mark 11:25,26;
Luke 6:36,37; Ephesians 4:31,32; James 2:13; Galatians 6:1-3; Colossians
3:13-17; Luke 15:25-30.
Having
received infinite mercy and great forgiveness, we ought to show gratitude to
the Creator by forgiving all His creatures. No man should lie down in his bed
at night without forgiving all those who had offended him. From the parable of
the kingdom which Jesus told, forgiving our fellowmen 100 pence when God has
forgiven us 10,000 talents should be normal and natural. This forgiveness does
not merit God’s forgiveness but it should be the natural consequence of the joy
of being forgiven by God. He who will not show mercy and forgive others rejects
mercy and forgiveness himself.